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ToggleWhen it comes to ensuring your wishes are honored and your loved ones are protected, crafting a Last Will and Testament is a crucial step in your estate planning journey. At Cary Estate Planning, we emphasize a thoughtful and comprehensive approach to help you create a will that reflects your intentions and safeguards your family’s future.
Who Will Implement Your Wishes? The Importance of Choosing an Executor
One of the foundational elements in creating your will is selecting an executor—the person empowered to settle your estate after you pass away. This individual will handle probate, pay any outstanding debts, and oversee the distribution of your assets to your beneficiaries. It’s essential to appoint not just one but several alternates to ensure there’s always someone ready to fulfill this responsibility, no matter what unforeseen circumstances arise.
Guardianship for Minor Children: Planning for Their Future
If you have minor children, your will should designate a guardian to care for them if both parents are no longer able to do so. Choosing one person at a time to hold this legal responsibility can avoid complications, even if the chosen guardian is married. This important decision ensures your children will be raised by someone you trust to honor your values and protect their wellbeing through their formative years.
Distributing Your Assets: Thoughtful Decisions for Your Beneficiaries
Your will specifies how your assets—such as personal property, real estate, and financial accounts without beneficiary designations—will be distributed. Consider who you want to receive what, how they will receive it (immediately or over time), and in what proportions. This thoughtful planning ensures your estate is distributed according to your wishes, minimizing family conflicts and legal challenges.
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Paul Yokabitus
Founder & Estate Planning Lawyer
Paul Yokabitus is the founder of Cary Estate Planning, where he helps North Carolina families protect what matters most through wills, trusts, probate, and special needs planning. Known for his “planning, not paperwork” approach, Paul turns complex legal concepts into clear, practical strategies so clients feel informed and confident at every step. He has been recognized as a Business North Carolina Legal Elite attorney and a Super Lawyers Rising Star, and was named to the Triangle Business Journal’s 40 Under 40. A graduate of Campbell University School of Law, Paul lives in the Triangle with his wife, Alix, and their two sons.
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Paul and his team at Cary Estate Planning are fully committed to creating a personalized experience to develop thorough and comprehensive estate plans. They value their clients and go above and beyond to make sure that no details are missed. I would highly recommend Paul to anyone looking to create an estate plan.
I was referred to Paul by my Real Estate Attorney and I could not say enough about how exceptional the client service has been from everyone I spoke to. The communication is prompt and I feel like they really took the time to answer all my questions and set things up exactly as I wanted, but also recommended things to make it easier on my family down the line.
After attending one of Paul’s estate planning seminars, my husband and I knew we wanted Paul to assist us with our estate planning. His honest, professional approach to this necessary part of life put us at ease with the process. We will continue to recommend Paul and Cary Estate Planning.
We had a great experience working with Paul Yokabitus and the team at Cary Estate Planning to set up our Will and Estate Plan. The process was clear and easy, and in the age of COVID, our signing session was very well done, easy, and safe.
The Cary Estate Planning team will make sure that you have the information you need to be confident in your estate planning decisions. I learned so much from videos, a one-on-one in-person consultation, the website, emails, and a newsletter mailed the old fashioned way. The fee is very reasonable given the importance of estate planning. No matter the size or number of your assets, don’t procrastinate like I did!
Paul is a masterful attorney. He’s very good at taking your intentions and defining that into a durable Trust and Will. Best of all he is as simple and plain-spoken as you like. Or as fast as intellectual as you may be. It’s all about your your speed and your desired outcomes. Would strongly recommend this firm.
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